Hundreds and thousands of women are being stalked every day. Sometimes there is no reason why others stalk you.
Beautiful women are stalked
and there is no denying the fact. Women often ignore stalking at first, but when stalking persists, they panic. Now how do men stalk? And why?
Reasons why men stalk
Firstly, there are number of ways men stalk women. They may follow you on street, or they message consistently, even when you don’t reply. They may mail you, threaten you, or try and cause emotional harassment.
And the reasons could be any. They are perhaps, your ex who wants to know what you are up to. He may be someone you know, but not familiar enough and this guy wants to get close to you. He may be particularly interested in knowing few things about you. Importantly, when men can’t follow physically, they call.
And when they don’t get a reply they start calling too frequently. Men who want to start a relationship with women may behave somewhat strangely, particularly women who seem to slip by. They would start making repeated calls, and when they don’t succeed, they start messaging. They message with the view that the messages will make some impact. These messages will then be accompanied by a phone call or a personal visit.
How to handle stalkers
Now if you are tired of all this, and then decide to pick the call after ignoring 80 calls. This guy will start believing that it will take that much call to engage this woman. And he will start the process all over again. It’s important, therefore, never to react or reply to calls or messages. However, you should remember one thing not to engage with a stalker on your own, especially if the person is someone you don’t know.
Just ignoring stalkers will not help. Overreaction is not good, but under reaction is not good either. The best way is to ignore, but if it doesn’t work, you must report the matter to someone who may take some kind of action.